Memorial Box Monday: The Dollar Tree

Occasionally when we are recalling the things that the Lord has done, we see His protection, as well as finding what some of His purposes were for a particular situation.
About ten years ago, when we were pastoring in Virginia, Autumn, Emma, Graham and Liberty had gone with me to Richmond to take Tyler to work. Tyler had a relatively short shift that day, so the plan was to drop him off, stay and run errands and pick him up in a few  hours.

We dropped Tyler off at his job and off we went. Liberty was 3, Emma was 8, Graham was 7, Autumn was 12.  As the time approached for me to go pick Tyler up, I debated. Should I go to Dollar Tree or not? It had not been part of my plans, but I kept feeling strongly that I was supposed to go, so we went.

As we moseyed our way through the store, Dw called. I was on my cell with him and the kids and I were looking at things near the back corner of the store. 

All of a sudden we heard screaming. 
Serious screaming. 
Scary screaming. 
The kind that makes your hair on your neck stand on end. 
Since I was on the phone with Dw it didn’t really register what I was hearing for a few seconds. 
Then I stopped and listened. 
Why in the world was someone screaming?

My first thought was some sort of domestic violence.  It gives me chills just remembering that day. I whispered to Dw, “There is someone really screaming, I need to go see what’s going on.” In my panic, after saying that, I hung up on him. He told me later, “DON’T EVER DO THAT AGAIN!”

The kids and I crept toward the front of the store.  The screaming continued. As we ever-so-slowly moved down the aisle closer toward the front I could now clearly see one of the two registers.  

Gracious, I didn’t realize how much emotion is still wrapped up in this memory as the tears start as I tweak this to repost {after originally sharing it almost 2 years ago}.

Anyway, God has given me an amazing ability to read lips, so I knew in an instant what she was mouthing even though she was kind of cowering, “We’re being robbed!!” Her eyes were huge pleading with me. I shook my head acknowledging that I understood.  We all crept backwards slowly.
 We moved a few aisles over.

I started to pray softly, “Oh God! Help us!” Suddenly I remembered my cell phone in my hand. I dialed 9-1-1.  When the dispatcher answered I whispered, “I’m in Dollar Tree on Hull Street in Chesterfield and we are being robbed.” 

The dispatcher asked, “Where are you in the store?” I told her that I had moved slowly back near the left corner of the store with my four young children. She asked me if I had seen the person robbing the store.  I had not.  He must have been at the other register. 
I was thankful that I had not seen him!  I also really, really, didn’t want him to see my precious treasures! I asked her if we should go out the back door. She told me not to, since we did not know if there were others helping this man rob the store or if there was even an accomplice in the alley behind the store.

After hanging up with 9-1-1, I called Dw to tell him that there was a robbery going on. He hung up and called friends to pray.

Eventually the screaming stopped and all we could hear was crying and crying. We then heard someone shout, “He’s gone.” We went slowly to the front of the store and there we found the clerk that he had robbed. She had been knocked to the floor by this thug. She was probably about 65 years old, tiny in stature and sobbing.

Now you have to understand sweet friends, I really, truly am a shy person. But it was definitely the Holy Spirit because I went right to her and wrapped my arms around her and just hugged her while she wept. She had been cut as she fell to the floor. She was bleeding.  I just hugged her like she was one of my kids. I hugged her tight. She held on for dear life.  She kept repeating, “I shouldn’t have given him the money.”  I assured her that she had done the right thing!  Money meant nothing!  Her life was worth everything!

The police arrived and locked down the entire store. We weren’t even allowed to leave. We were locked in for probably 1/2 hour while they checked everything good and asked lots of questions.

That clerk just sobbed and sobbed and sobbed and held on like there was no tomorrow. Her name was Bonnie and I asked her if it would be okay for me to pray with her. She shook her head. So while hugging her tight, I began to pray aloud over her. Asking God to comfort her and minister to her heart. I thanked Him over and over and over for protecting her. {Really friends, he could have killed her. He could have killed others in the store!}

Eventually we were allowed to go. What an experience! How do you even deal with that as you walk out of the store? Our lives were forever changed {again} in a few short minutes. 

Not many people have been in a store robbery in their lifetime. The kids were crying and scared and so I prayed with the kids as we went to the car. Thanking the Lord over and over for His hand of protection. When we all got into the car, I realized it was so weird. What do you do after such an event? 
So I said the only thing that I could think of saying, “God protected us guys. He loves us so much. Let’s celebrate His protection. Let’s go for ice cream at Bruster’s!!”
Right across the side street from Dollar Tree was a Bruster’s {best ice cream we’ve ever had – hands down!}. I let them order anything they wanted. And we decided there is a new rule for our family.

Anytime we are in a robbery, 
we get to go for ice cream.

But the story doesn’t end there. Obviously, I was shaken. The kids were shaken. God had protected us, the others in the store, the clerk at the other register. He had protected Bonnie. I wanted to do something for Bonnie. I wanted her to know how much God loves her, how He died for her so that she might live.
I decided to fill a gift bag with all kinds of goodies….stuff like: Bath & Body bubble bath, special smelly stuff, pampering stuff. And I also put a Bible in it and a copy of of book that I loved at the time. I wrote Bonnie a letter and told her about God’s deep love for her, and that He had special plans for her life.
The next day I drove back to Dollar Tree. She actually was working. The minute she saw me she threw her arms around me and hugged the daylights out of me. She said, “You were in the store yesterday for me. God knew I would need you here and so you were shopping just so you could be with me after the robbery.”
As I walked away I realized that God had indeed allowed us to be in the Dollar Tree on Hull Street at that exact moment so we could minister to Bonnie.  Although I would not wish to be in a robbery again, He will use every circumstance to minister to others,
if we let Him.

{On an interesting side note: 
 Tyler was sooo upset that he had not been with us.   
He lamented, “You guys have all the fun without me.”  
No doubt God was preparing Tyler for serving in 
our nation’s Special Forc*s because I just don’t think there 
are a ton of people who think that missing being 
in a robbery would be missing all the fun!}

What has God done for you? How has He provided? When has He protected? What has He surprised you with? How has He healed you? Please place your permalink below to share your own Memorial Box Monday story.

I loved reading all last weeks stories!
Please post yours too!

{I first shared this particular story about 20 months ago.}
If you are wondering what a Memorial Box is, I explain it here. If you don’t understand how to link a permalink, it is explained here. Now do it! Tell us all what faithful God has done for you!!

11 thoughts on “Memorial Box Monday: The Dollar Tree

  1. Oh! That story gave me goose bumbs!!! Many thanks to our great God for protecting you and your precious children — and Bonnie and the other customers! And many thanks to you for choosing to minister to Bonnie.

    In our family, we go out for ice cream anytime anything bad happens. When my husband and I had been back from our honeymoon for about a week, our landlady called and gave us a month to move out (but clearly indicated that she didn't want us to take the full month), as she wanted her grandson to have the house we rented from her. We had one minimum wage job between us and had no idea what we should do next, so we went out for "ice cream" at Shakey's, a frozen custard place in Joplin. Ice cream (in whatever form available) has been our standard response to troubles ever since.

    You could extend your ice cream rule to other troubles besides store robberies, since you may not have the "opportunity" to be in another one. 🙂

  2. I wish I had your ability to lipread! 🙂

    I remember you sharing that story. It's wonderful how He had orchestrated that you would be there… and how He used you to minister to Bonnie.

    I loved the ice cream reward at the end… it reminds me of the swimming pool, when it ended up closed, that you treated all your kids for an ice cream (can't recall exactly) but I like that outlook on life! what's to stop us from making up? 🙂

    Oh, let you know, thank you for your comment under my MBM, about the video that is not working, I am currently downloading it again in youtube (instead of vimeo) when it is up and running, I will leave another comment and let you know that it's up so that you can see it if you like. Someone else told me he had trouble seeing the vimeo video as it kept rewinding itself.

  3. Bruster's is our own family tradition! But we do it on road trips… haven't had the robbery excuse yet. I guess this should be a memorial box story, but I haven't written it down yet. However, On last Monday, my 16 year old sister was driving down a narrow road with me, my baby sisters (5 and 3), my pre-teen brothers, and my mom. In a freak accident, her mirror collided with that of the driver in the other lane, shattering her window. Instead of swerving (into the vehicle or off a drop off), my sissie brought the car to a stop in the middle of the road and was even thinking straight enough to turn on the panic lights. She was slightly cut up, and very shook up, but the glass did not touch any of our other precious treasures. God kept it off our babies, out of Lyddie's eyes, and kept the car on the road. Anyway, when you talked about walking out of the store and the kids crying and praying, I was reminded of the moments following the accident and on our way home. God is so faithful. Thank you for pointing to him.

  4. Hi Linny, just to let you know that I've put up another video (from youtube) in my blog, so it should be working for you 🙂 I'm curious on your thoughts, it seemed like the Lord was speaking to me, showing me confirmations from His Word. It felt like that way, I was continually in awe, esp at the end with the daily bread promise box verse.

    Happy viewing (when you have the time! 🙂 it is 30 mins long).

  5. WOW! I don't have a blog BUT God moved in a way to give my son-in law a job full time. I as well as others prayed one thing I asked God was to make it very very clear to him the Power of Prayer! God did that and Chuey knows it! Janet

  6. Linny- Tyler's comment is hilarious. I am over the moon happy for him and Sarah with baby Char. Thank You Lord for your protection and Your good and perfect gifts from above.

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