As a little backdrop……I always wanted a pile of kids.
A big pile.
I didn’t care how they came: adoption, birth or dropped from the sky.
Just a big ol’ boatload. For the record, I have been asked what my
definition of ‘pile’ is?
“When you look at a family picture and have a hard time quickly
figuring out which is the mom and dad because of having to
scan the sea of faces, that’s what I call a pile.”
Abi was born in 1983 after years and years of infertility. Over the next 10 years
I was only able to conceive 4 times and each of those little ones
left my womb prematurely. We named them Timothy, Andrea, Meghan and John.
They get to live with Jesus and we are so thankful that we will
see them one day. It was a long heartbreaking, agonizing haul.
In between Timothy, Andrea, Meghan and John we had years of
infertility accompanied by tests, shots, surgeries…yeah, not so much fun.
But through those 10 years the Lord graciously brought us
Tyler and Autumn through the miracle of adoption. We were ecstatic!
In 1992, ten years after Abi’s birth, I miraculously conceived again
while pastoring our first church in Virginia. I ended up on complete
bed rest and eventually, God in His mercy and grace
allowed me to carry her until July 22nd, 1993. We named her
EmmaLee Joy
We were ecstatic to now have four precious little ones! Emma was thriving
and growing until that morning 20 years ago today.
As I was emptying the dishwasher, Emma was nestled in my arms sleeping soundly.
One by one I lifted each dish out and put it away while Emmy slept in my left arm.
I was praying softly as I worked away. How gracious God had
been to continue to fulfill His promises,
“He makes the barren woman to be at home the joyful mother of children.”I remember looking down and kind of staring at her.
Something didn’t feel right. I went back to putting the dishes away one by one.
I looked down again. Hmmm.
What was it?
I felt like something was wrong even though Emma was sleeping
soundly in my arm. I kept working and after another minute or
two looked down again . This time Emma was completely blue.
She was the same color as a pair of faded blue jeans. I freaked out.
I hoisted her with both hands up over my head and screamed,
“Emma, Emma, what’s wrong?” The quick movement allowed her to start
breathing again.
We ended up in the Pediatric Intensive Care Unit at the same hospital
I had delivered Emma less than 6 weeks before. Test upon test finally
revealed that Emma had Apnea and we were told that
I had “interrupted a SIDS incident”.
Many doctors told me that had I not
been holding her she would no longer be with us.
We were sent home with a heart monitor that she wore 24/7 for almost a year.
She would often “forget to breath” and the machine would start blaring.
We would have to gently shake her to help her remember to breathe.
It was one of those years that was a
defining moment in my life.
Nothing mattered but the well-being of my baby girl and my other kids.
Hence, we have a little lead from the heart monitor in our Memorial Box
reminding us that our Miracle-working, Mountain-moving, Awe-inspiring,
Gasp-giving God had preserved and protected our precious gift.
We will praise His name forever for allowing us to raise Emma.
She is a delight to all who meet her: tender-hearted, gracious, a tad shy, loving Jesus most and wanting with all her heart to please Him.
Emmy we love you!
When Emma was just 6-1/2 years old, God called her to serve the orphans of Uganda.
I have a video of her 8th birthday where she clearly states she is going to move to Uganda
and care for the orphans. She isn’t in Uganda because of pursuing a fad or following someone popular. She knew 13 years ago that when she was old enough to go, she would move to serve the orphans. Never once, did she sway in that plan.
She has determinedly worked toward it, with not one exception.
In January 2013 Emma permanently moved to Uganda. By the time she had moved to Uganda,
she had already been there 11 times before for almost a year total with all the trips, including the ones to bring our Ruby home .
One of my all-time favorite pictures of Emma –
taken in one of most favorite places filled with memories that
we hold dear. {Letchworth State Park}
Since moving permanently to Uganda she has found a home,furnished her home, hired her staff, and has been busily preparing for the ministry God has called her to there.
Although we miss her till our chest literally aches, we are thankful that
she gave her life to ALmighty God and has been completely obedient to Him.
Emma has a blog, where she writes about her journey:
What a blessing this has been to read! The story sounds all to familiar to this momma's ears.
https://www.facebook.com/notes/desiree-milletary-williams/titus-story/20279689981
Still working on our "pile" of kids 🙂
apeculiarfamily.blogspot.com
Wow! What a miracle. God is so good. Always! Praise God for His grace and detailed care of each of us. That He loves us more than we will ever know. Emma and your family is a beautiful picture to me of how we never own our children. They are never truly ours. He gives them to us and entrusts us to raise them, teach and guide them into His service. Knowing this makes life so much easier when we have children with special needs. As we love and care for them so much. They are ours. But more so His. And He will take care of them always. Blessings for another beautiful post!
Love Love Love to hear more of the details of your life… although gut wrenching to hear of that day when you almost lost her… ( I know those are reasons why we share the same heart in many ways!) God had and has great plans for her life… What a precious gift she is! We are so glad to know her! Praying for Emma and her work in Uganda… Praying for you all! Write away friend!
Amen! I think every parent wishes for a daughter like yours…you have a great family and many special children… 🙂
I have an Emmalee Joy too!! I pray she grows into a young lady of God such as your Emmalee!
Oh my goodness…this post put in me in tears. How faithful and good our God is. And what a blessing He has given you in dear, sweet Emma. Love and prayers to her as she serves our Lord and King.
WOW! Beautiful!! I firmly believe in not putting babies down. I got teased for this, but I had read similar stories to yours. You know, not one of my teenagers is still in the snuggly. That is one of those parenting moments that will no doubt always stay as clear for you as the day it happened.
She's my hero too. God bless you, Emma Joy!
Amazing testimony! She certainly was "set apart" by God for His plans and purposes. I love hearing testimony on how He sets a course in a young persons life and gives them the vision to see it through. So much more God honoring than seeing all those aimless youth meandering through their lives. My 14 year old is just reading "Do Hard Things" and he is loving it!
Oh – and one more thing we have in common… our littlest treasure Skylar has a genetic disorder (like your Jubilee) but she has extra chromosomes… maybe we can spin them in the dryer for a load and Skylar can give Jubilee some of her extras :o)
I also have a set of her cardiac leads from her Apnea monitor… yes our God is good!
I thank God for calling Emma to Uganda and for her friendship. Always praying for Emma!